![]() American culture doesn’t value sacrifice as much as it values individuality. The couple was surprised at first that a simple principle like sacrifice provided a solution to their problems. They learned that mutual love grows as we serve and sacrifice for each other. By focusing on sacrificing for each another, the couple gained the courage to move forward in their relationship. Julie felt like it was easier to appreciate Michael when she cleaned her apartment for him and when she forgave his imperfections, and Michael knew from experience that his love for Julie grew when he sacrificed his evening sports show to hear about her day. ![]() Through discussion, Michael and Julie came to realize that although their problems were very real, their strengths were real as well, and they showed those strengths best when they sacrificed for one another. They worried that their differences were irreconcilable. And according to Michael, Julie was intolerant, disorganized, and high maintenance. But according to Julie, Michael didn’t earn enough, didn’t listen well enough, and didn’t compromise. ![]() When they did the math, it should have worked out. ![]() Julie was willing to move to a new location, and Michael was willing to attend all of her family gatherings. Michael Ruse and Julie Dodger had been engaged for six months, but the closer they got to the wedding, the more concerned they were about the marriage. "In this world, it is not what we take up, but what we give up that makes us rich." ![]()
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